Tell her that you love her, Lafritte, and make sure that she knows that you want her every minute of the day. Read up on BDSM relationships, particularly involving Dominant/submissive dynamics. Women of a certain vintage are used to the man leading the sexual adventure. I have personally witnessed the transformation of a demure, proper Canadian lady into a moaning, pussy-grinding slut - by binding her wrists with manacles, a comfortable, effective blindfold over her eyes, and then telling her that she has no choice but to perform Master’s bidding. The scene starts with tying her bent over a spanking bench with her bare ass presented for all to see, touch and use. Starting off with bare handed slaps, you gradually “warm her up”, building sexual tension by caressing and playfully spanking her soft, round ass cheeks. As her bum starts to turn pink from spanking, you demand that she spread her feet wider apart, and you order her to demonstrate how she would wiggle her gorgeous bum in the air to attract some passing stranger to fuck her. As she arches her back to display her pussy, you begin to gently spank her pussy, slowly at first. As she moans and pushes back against your strokes, you may increase the tempo and force - her body will respond and you can judge how fast and hard to go by how loud her moans and how sopping wet her pussy gets. Remember, woman who feels respected, adored and cherished, ESPECIALLY a lady who has been sexually repressed her whole life, will respond powerfully to a loving Dominant’s touch.