Yes, the ritual of removing ones clothes/hvaing ones clothes removed and feeling embarrasment and humiliation is great, total turnon. The anticipation while assuming the position can make my body quiver in complete arousal. I love feeling the doms hands on my body. It doesnt matter if Im being examined, fondled, tied up or if he's removing more of my clothing,, I just wanna feel his hands on my skin before I feel the cane on my ass and everything becomes pain.
I completly understand that. Once you have tasted the kiss of the lash on your skin, so to speak, you're hooked. If you have that kind of kink in you. I feel the same way, I always yearn to get punished by whipping and spanking again and again =)